SMALL minds...

Yesterday reading a blog that I recently found out called Confessions of a fashion girl , I was gobsmacked...I have to say I really was, so the post was about a 23year old "kid" who thinks that a woman is a man's appendix...WTF? and that if you don't adopt your husbands surname your marriage doesn't last more than 2 weeks??? HONESTLY! in my 29 years of age I have never heard such nonsense!! OMG!
How is that possible???? In which century has this girl been living?
Someone should tell her, that women have free will, they can vote and most important they have IDENTITY, regardless of any men!

I had to share, I commented on the post but I really needed to share!

Ontem ao ler um blog que descobri recentemente chamado Confessions of a fashion girl, fiquei chocada ... Tenho que confessar que realmente fiquei chocada! Portanto, o post era a cerca de uma "miuda" com 23 anos de idade que acha que uma mulher é um apêndice do homem ... WTF? e que acha que se não se adoptar o sobrenome do marido os casamentos não duram mais de duas semanas?? Francamente! nos meus 29 anos de idade eu nunca ouvi tal absurdo! OMG!
Como é que é possível?? Em que século, vive esta menina?
Alguém lhe devia dizer que as mulheres têm o livre arbítrio, que podem votar e mais importante que têmIDENTIDADE, independentemente de qualquer homem!

A minha indignacao e tal que eu tinha que partilhar, eu comentei no post, mas eu realmente precisava de partilhar!

till my next post!

i am out of here...

I will be going for the weekend to my love ...again!
2011 started but didn't really change my situation, I am still here and he is still there...and what shall I do??
shall I stay? shall I go??
I want to go...I really do..what good is a really good job if you still get to go home and be alone...and it's not just the being alone is really the feeling lonely...

I live in a city with 7 million people and to be honest I have never felt so lonely in my life!

till my next post!

Este fim de semana vou ver o meu amor ... de novo!
2011 começou, mas nao mudou a minha situação em nadinha, eu ainda estou aqui e ele ainda está lá ... que devo fazer?
devo ficar? devo ir?
Eu quero ir ...quero mesmo .. qde que me vale um trabalho realmente bom, se vou para casa e estou la sozinha ... e não é só o estar sozinho é o sentimento de solidão ...

Eu moro numa cidade com 7 milhões de pessoas e para ser honesta nunca me senti tão sozinha na minha vida!

até meu próximo post!

diets...

I have the worse body relationship of everybody I know...
Basically I don't really like anything in me, but thanks to my amazing boyfriend, In the past 4 years I started learning how to appreciate myself, how to dress for me and not just dress the first thing that I see in the morning and I have to say I like this new attitude, much healthier one!

However, despite loving Xmas and New Year, in this season I always (and I really mean always) put on weight!

It took me 6 months to lose 4 kg, and now in just 2 weeks I put 1.5 kg back...so annoying!
So I am back in the healthy food, and I am going to go back to the gym, however I don't feel like it!
For once I would like to be able to eat everything I want and like and not worry about weight!!!

I still have a long road in front of me...I have to lose the 1.5 kg I put plus another 2 kg! all in all I am looking to another 6 months of very hard work! So unfair!

till my next post!

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Of all the things in life, at the moment the only one that gives me hope is knowing that i will be flying to him this weekend...can't wait!

I need a change in my life, and I mean a radical change!

Till my next post!

De todas as coisas na vida, neste momento, a unica coisa que me motiva e da esperanca e saber que este fds vou estar com ele...mal posso esperar!

eu preciso de uma mudanca radical na minha vida!!
ate ao proximo post!

sunday :)

today I woke up at almost 11 am, felt good, felt like sunday! Then, had some nice breakfast got ready and went shopping!
I was trying to find some nice brown boots and I managed! yes, I did, some really nice leather brown boots that used to cost 90£ and i got them for 23£ ( I LOVE the english sales)!
Then I went food shopping, when all the lights and extra lights were in the bag (because I am trying to lose the 2 kgs I put over Xmas and New Year) i had to face the biggest queue in the history of queues...oh my God, it's like whole London decided to go food shopping at my local supermarket! and now, well, now I am finally home, I cooked some nice food and I will now prepare for a work presentation I have tomorrow!!
All in all it was a nice sunday!

and tomorrow I will most likely be wearing my new boots :)

Liz Durrett- How can i tell you

This isfor you... I love you so so much!

new star sign??

WTF ????
Today I was busy at work so Only now i realised that I am no longer a VIRGO!! I am now a LEO! what????

NO NO NO! I am a VIRGO, I was born on the first day of VIRGO (or at least the 1st day prior to the discovery of the Ophiuchus)...

I don't like this...I really don't!

what is real what is not?? everything is changing... :) lolol

I say we ignore OPHIUCHUS!!!

what shall I do this weekend?

Tomorrow is FRIDAY! and for the first time in a lot of time I am actually going to rest!
I am going to be able to enjoy one weekend without feeling guilty and all because I submitted the book I wrote...now I wait...for the final examination!

anyway, getting back to the weekend to the rest with no stress...what shall I do this weekend?
I wanted to go out with him, but he is not here....I wanted to look at him, smile and say I am free!!

but for all that I have to wait until next weekend...this weekend I am going to have some fun!
To read to listen to music and maybe go to the cinema....I am free so I can do whatever i please with my time!

NO GUILT!

11-01-2011

Tomorrow is the day I will submit my PhD thesis...feeling nervous!


Amanhã é o dia em que vou entregar a minha tese de doutoramento...estou nervosa!!

Merry Xmas!

Merry Xmas and a Happy New Year! :)